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What is Amplified Orgasm? (And Why You Need It!)

I have worked with hundreds of singles and couples as an Orgasm Coach& Relationship Expert for over 6 years. In that time, I have helped clients release long held trauma stored in their body, reconnect with sexual pleasure, and develop deep desire driven intimacy in their relationships. However, one of my strongest passions, and the subject of my new book Amplify Your Orgasm, is, you guessed it, ORGASM!

When I meet new people to talk about my book, I am often asked: “What is Amplified Orgasm?” The answer to that question is a long one, in fact, long enough to fill not one but two books on the subject!

However, this article will offer a starting point to understand Amplified Orgasm and what it can offer you and your relationship. I hope it inspires you to take a step today to gain more access to sexual pleasure, deeper and more intimate connections with your partner, and a profound celebration of fully embodied orgasmic experiences.

Amplified Orgasm - Beyond the Physical Dimension

Most of us have come to think about sex as primarily a physical experience. Genitals tingle, the blood rushes through our body in a heightened state of arousal, and pleasure is sensed throughout the body until it rises to its culmination and release, also known as climax.

Some people also connect with sex as a form of emotional expression. That is, many of us already understand and experience sex as a way to manifest our love and strengthen our bond. It is for many, a chance to enjoy the pleasure of intimacy and vulnerability with someone we love. Interestingly, although sexual intimacy between partners is often understood as emotional in nature, even then, orgasm itself is largely understood through a purely physical lens.

Amplified Orgasm starts with recognizing that the embodied experience of being a human is not simply a physical one. Our embodiment happens along at least five layers or dimensions: physical, emotional, mental, energetic, and spiritual. Moreover, intimate sexual relations offer us a chance to connect on all of these levels. Amplified Orgasm is thus something more than climax. It is more than a purely physical release. It is also emotional, mental, energetic, and spiritual.

When we expand our understanding of sexual activities to include these other dimensions of the human experience, then we begin to understand that Amplified Orgasm is possible, and indeed desirable, to allow you and your partner to share and align yourselves more intensely, leading to deeper satisfaction and nourishing connection.

In such states, even the quality of simple day to day life experiences begin to feel more blissful and happiness begins to emerge from the body day in day out. Without Amplified Orgasm, we are often engaging ourselves in numerous tasks so that we can feel that adrenaline rush, so that we can feel a glimpse of happiness, so that we always have something to do to keep our mind occupied. But all of this often results in pressure, stress, lack of presence and self-care, over-doing, over-stimulating, and various other hindrances to energetic flows which ultimately have a negative impact on our physical and mental wellbeing.

Amplified Orgasm heightens every experience that is played out through the physical, mental, emotional, energetic and spiritual levels. Thus, Amplified Orgasm is not the same as mere climax!

Amplified Orgasm - Beyond Orgasm as a Goal

Many of us approach sex as if the climax is the goal post that marks the end of the experience. This can be especially true for men, thanks in large part to a porn culture that seems to place men at the center of the sexual experience, each scene ending not long after the man ejaculates.

This behaviour then also shows up in real life. In my coaching experiences, many women have disappointingly narrated how they wished their male partner would stay engaged once he had ejaculated, rather than dozing off and falling asleep, leaving them, or immediately putting their attention somewhere else. I would like to highlight here that repeated experiences of this sort will often make women become somewhat closed off to their partners at one or more of layers of the embodied experience. Overtime this will result in diminishing the sexual desire, access to sexual pleasure, and frequency of sexual encounters.

Rather than placing an emphasis on climax as a goal, to experience Amplified Orgasm, attention is shifted to the process of orgasmic amplification rather than any specific goal. That is, it is a mindset and body practice shift that is tuned in to the emergence of changes in the physical, emotional, mental, energetic, and spiritual states. By tuning in to these subtle shifts, the partners practicing the Amplified Orgasmic Method learn how to be present with their bodies on all of the layers that it exists, learn to synchronize and resonate with each other on all of these layers, and learn to experience new pleasures such as whole body orgasm, mindgasms, multiple orgasms, and more.

Amplified Orgasm - Beyond the Bedroom

Although I am passionate about sexual pleasure, healthy and vibrant relationships, and of course orgasm itself, I have seen first hand both in my life and that of my clients, that the benefits of Amplified Orgasm go well beyond the bedroom.

In fact, when people learn to tune in to the various levels of their embodied experience, when they learn to become present in the moment and allow opportunity to emerge, when they learn to allow desire to be their compass, life opens up across all domains.

Many of my clients experience a sense that they are more fully experiencing their world outside of the bedroom. Their relationships, career, family, and other areas of their life are richer and fuller because they have learned to tune in to the world beyond the physical in a much better way. In addition, skills such as releasing trauma from the body, unblocking energy that has become stuck, and developing greater sensitivity to the energy systems within and around us, serve us in so many beneficial ways in everyday life.

Amplified Orgasm - Beyond the Bedroom

Although I am passionate about sexual pleasure, healthy and vibrant relationships, and of course orgasm itself, I have seen first hand both in my life and that of my clients, that the benefits of Amplified Orgasm go well beyond the bedroom.

In fact, when people learn to tune in to the various levels of their embodied experience, when they learn to become present in the moment and allow opportunity to emerge, when they learn to allow desire to be their compass, life opens up across all domains.

Many of my clients experience a sense that they are more fully experiencing their world outside of the bedroom. Their relationships, career, family, and other areas of their life are richer and fuller because they have learned to tune in to the world beyond the physical in a much better way. In addition, skills such as releasing trauma from the body, unblocking energy that has become stuck, and developing greater sensitivity to the energy systems within and around us, serve us in so many beneficial ways in everyday life.

Amplified Orgasm - Transformative Practice

Although Amplified Orgasm does require some disciplined practice to master specific techniques, the benefits go beyond the bedroom. By teaching us how to connect with our journey in a deeper and more satisfying way, Amplified Orgasm offers life transforming potential for those that decide to take this journey.

Connecting with each other in ways that nourish and support each other at the deepest levels is a powerful natural force. After all, for humans, the need for authentic connection with others is written into our DNA! As social creatures, we only unlock our full potential as we navigate our relationships and impact the lives of those around us. By centering ourselves in our true desires and life purpose, and by learning to use desire as our compass through the Amplified Orgasmic Method (AOM), we learn how to tune in to our larger life purpose in a profound way.

Learn More About Amplified Orgasm

If you are interested in learning more about amplified orgasm, I invite you to purchase my book Amplify Your Orgasm which is accompanied by a complete workbook full of practical exercises to guide you on the Path of Amplified Orgasm.

If you would like to learn more about my bodywork, coaching, online courses, or workshops, consider booking a free discovery call to decide which services are best suited for your needs.

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