MY BOOK IS ABOUT ORGASM SO LETS'S GO STRAIGHT INTO IT.
In my view, Orgasm, as we generally know it, actually, it happens from within both for men and women. What our partner does is lays down the conditions for it to come out and make it happen in relation to each other. The only exception to this is the energetic Orgasms which can happen anytime, anywhere, from any part of our body, with or without any relation to anyone, from within or even from outside.
(explain letting go with examples)
I don’t believe anyone can give anyone great Orgasms unless you, yourself are willing to let go off completely because in order to have deeper states of Orgasm, one needs to be able to go into involuntary. The more one is able to let go off, the more of the involuntary can happen which in turn means more of the orgasmic states can be achieved.